Some people believe that they will recognize the right person for them at first sight. They imagine that soft music, a slow-motion walk, and an awkward moment of direct eye contact will accompany her arrival. However, that's not usually the reality. It's essential to understand what to look for when determining if someone is the right match for you.

Let me propose a radical idea. If your marriage is difficult, it's because you make it so. It's not inherently problematic.